Services and Support we offer

Holding Hands

Support Meetings

Held on Zoom Platform at present

Due to COVID-19 our monthly support meetings are currently being held on-line over the Zoom platform.  Please visit our Support meetings page for further information.


Befriending/Peer Support

Someone to talk to when you want to talk, who will have an understanding of how you might be feeling because they have been there, and who will listen for as long as you wish to talk.

Befrienders are always available at our support meetings, but they can also provide support by offering telephone support and email support if you find this way the easiest.

Please do not hesitate to contact us if you would like to talk, it's why we are here.

Writing Letters

Leaflets & Books

Bereavement booklets/Library

We are currently in the process of updating our leaflets and book collection.  If you are interested in anything being sent out to you please contact us so we can add you to our waiting list.


Baby Tracing

Within Ayrshire

In cases where a baby was buried some time ago, but the parents were not told where, we may be able to locate your baby's final resting place with our contacts with all three Ayrshire Councils and Funeral Directors.

For more information on this service please contact us with any and all details you have on the baby and both parents at the time of birth and we will do all we can to help.

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Remembrance Birthday/Anniversary cards

From us to you

We would be honoured to remember your wee one by sending a card from us to you on your baby's birthday or anniversary, and/or to put a message up of their name on our social media.

If this is something you think you would like, please contact us and we will send out a form for you to complete.

Book and Coffee

Book of Remembrance

@ Ayrshire Maternity Unit

The Book of Remembrance was started in 1990.  There is now more than one and they are kept in the Family Suite at Ayrshire Maternity Unit. 

The books are in a loose-leaf format and entries are placed in date order.  There are two types of entries, one for Stillbirths and one for Neo-natals.

The Book of Remembrance is a place our babies details can be recorded along with a poem or verse.  Not only do we provide the completed certificate to place in the book, but we can also provide a duplicate copy of the certificate that can be sent to you for you to keep, if you wish, free of charge.

For more details or to obtain a form to complete please contact us.


Memorial Trees

Copper Tree / Brass heart plaques

During 2018, we installed a beautiful copper memorial love tree in the Spiritual room at Crosshouse Hospital, this tree holds little heart shaped brass plaques which are engraved with the name and date of birth/passing of our precious babies.

Due to the popularity of this tree, in the summer of 2020 we installed another one in the Spiritual room at Ayr hospital.

If you would like a heart shaped plaque placed on either of these trees, please click the link below and complete the form.