Advent 2024

Join us on our ABLS Chirstmas Advent, if you would like to add something close to your heart, a poem, a picture, a quote, anything you find comfort in please send us a message through our Facebook page.

24th

Thank you to everyone who took part in our advent. Our final advent post is for everyone, as we are sure this is true for us all 🌟

🩵🩷 We would like to wish you all a gentle Christmas 🩷🩵

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19th

For Noah, love Mummy xxx

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1st

To our angel Luca 🩵🩵

4th

I read this poem often to our girls, your sisters. Our little Rowan and Baby Bingham, you will always be part of our story.

Every day, we will look for the Feathers, the Rainbows and the Robins. Always and forever

From mum, Yvonne xxx

18th

In Loving Memory of Our Daughter

🎅🏻💞💞🪽Carol👼🏻💞💞🎄

Stillborn on 18th July 1989

A Little Flower, Lent not given,

To Bud on Earth and Bloom in Heaven

GBNF

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10th

For our wee Nicole,

With so much love,

Mum & Dad 🩷

23rd

For my little brother, Noah, love from Harry 🩵

22nd

We know this time of year is tough for anyone living with grief, regardless of the type of loss. If you are supporting a bereaved parent, family member, or friend and not sure how best to help over the festive season, we hope you find this helpful.

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12th

For Grace Anne Rose Mcgill ❤️👼

13th

'Snowflakes'

Gentle snowflakes, beautiful and pure, each one different as it falls.

Yet snow blankets everything, all the same.

Like every baby that passes before their time, each story and life different.

Yet grief blankets everything, all the same.

Be gentle with yourself, especially over the festive season.

- painted with Grace, by Fay O'Sullivan.

14th

We are here for you always.

https://www.ayrshirebabyloss.org/

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15th

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18th

A poem for Archie, love mum x

I lie alone with tears running down my cheeks.

I wonder what you're doing, alone for all these weeks.

Oh, I wish it was a lie, that

four years have gone by.

It hasn't been all that easy and often full of strife,

Somedays, I wonder how I got this far, without you in my life.

So even though you've gone your way, I came along just to say,

A cruel twist of fate had us part, I want you to know you're always in mum's heart.

Miss you sweet little Archie 🖤 happy YOU day 🖤

7th

Merry Christmas to our Angel Lottie 🩷 forever in our hearts, forever loved and never forgotten ✨ mummy, daddy, Belle & Mac xxxx

9th

Codie Gordon Cashmore - 1/12/13

8th

I hold this every night to say "goodnight Grace, love you, baby girl," as my way of keeping Grace with me x 💕💖💕

With love from Gran Mary xxx

6th

The moment that you left me.

To our beautiful Ivy 💓

My heart was split in two;

One side was filled with memories;

The other side died with you.

I often lay awake at night

When the world is fast asleep;

And take a walk down memory lane

With tears upon my cheek.

Remembering you is easy,

I do it every day;

But missing you is a heartache

That never goes away.

I hold you tightly within my heart

And there you will remain;

You see, life has gone on without you,

But will never be the same.

💓

Love from Mummy.

2nd

I would give the world to say Merry Christmas to yous today.

To hear your voices to see yous smile.

My Christmas wish would be to have

yous here with me.

I wish I could buy yous gifts and share this special time with yous.

Merry Christmas babies.

Love Mummy X

5th

A Tribute to Thomas

Oor tiny angel, taken too soon,

Your life, a fleeting, precious boon.

Thomas, our son, now in heaven's embrace,

Watching over us with a gentle grace.

Though stillborn, your memory we hold dear,

A love so pure, a bond so clear.

In our hearts, you'll forever be,

Our cherished angel, our family.

We miss you dearly, each and every day,

wishing you could have stayed to play.

But know, our love for you will never cease,

As you rest in heaven's eternal peace.

Your 2 wee sisters now carry on your legacy,

A testament to the love we have for thee.

We're proud of you, oor wee angel so true,

Forever in our hearts, we'll always love you.

Love Mammy and Daddy 💚💜

3rd

Christmas approaching, Christmas approaching. Ho Ho Ho. My girls scream and cheer with total delight. December begins for me with sheer dread. My heart aches, my head is in pain. Sometimes I manage, and sometimes I don't. But hey ho, I know that's ok. I still feel you around me, even in my tummy. When the snow started to fall and I was told your heart was beating no more. I was broken. I can still feel the weight of my feet trying to move because the world wouldn't stop. You were so selfless even in death. You protected your sister with sheer love and devotion cuddled into her. You kept her safe every day. My beautiful babies now ready to be born. the days were getting lighter, but my heart was still broken and dark. The pain is still raw and so sore, but I know when I am ready to take my last breath and close my eyes the Lord god himself will place you in my arms, where you will stay forever. Forever my baby, forever my Skye.

Anne-marie Taylor

20th